I've heard this line many times on films and reflection vlogs. It's true because I have experienced it. You can hurt someone with words and with silence. Sometimes when you don't an address an issue immediately, things can snowball into something bigger.
A cousin told me that it happens to them. As siblings, they fight every so often. Go silent for months and then just move on without talking about what happened. "You just drop the issue and move on?" I asked. She said, "Yes, move on as if nothing happened." She explained to me that sometimes it's better not to dwell on the issue and just focus on loving each other.
Things get worse when you become engrossed on making a point. Ask yourself, is it worth ruining the relationship? Is the hurt turning you into someone you are not? It really does take a bigger person to move beyond the hurt. So always remember to pray and seek guidance and company.
Have a blessed Sunday everyone.
#BeKind #StaySafe
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