I was minding my own business and was watering my plants when the neighbors (helpers probably) started having a screamfest over sinampay. I guess it rained earlier when we were out and some of their newly laundered clothes got wet. I wasn't given a choice and had the misfortune of hearing the huge row that ensured. They threw hurtful words against each other. Words that I only usually hear from Batang Quiapo when the masters berate their assistants/helpers.
Oh boy, it felt like I was brought back to my childhood home. Our neighbor there had frequent screamfests too. We don't have helpers, but I grew up in a household that had a harmonious relationship with our angels.
Here's a few things I learned from my Mom about managing people. I also used this when I managed the team across the region.
1. Set responsibilities and expectations upfront. Define key results expected and how their work will be assessed.
2. Escalate issues as they come. Don't let it fester.
3. To resolve issues take a coaching approach so they realize where they can address the problem before it gets big.
4. Never use curse words or downgrade people.
5. Gambling is a big no-no.
6. Live within your means. Utang destroys relationships.
7. No gossiping.
8. Pray.
Good thing our other neighbor always brings good vibes. They have a baby so the mood is always happy. I transferred to that side to water my other plants. Grogu and Anakin followed and played with us. I'm so glad I have fur babies. They really help bring peace.
#BeKind #StaySafe
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